I'm currently having a lot of problems with my 15 year old son. I'm really worried now because I've only got 8 months until he's 16 and can legally do as he pleases, even leave home. His school report was bad and he's underacheiving in most subjects. Its no surprise considering he never does his homework and often goes out of school if its a lesson he doesn't like. The school give him detention but he doesn't go so what more can they do? There are lots of other kids acting similarly that they have to deal with too.
When I was at school, if we'd acted like this we'd have been caned. Looking back, that threat was the only thing that made me toe the line because I hated having to go to school. Until recently I was very much against that kind of physical punishment but now I think maybe it wasn't such a bad thing. I feel sorry for high school teachers having to deal with todays teenagers. I know they're not all bad but there are a bunch of them probably in every school (at least where I live) who have no respect for anyone. What can we do to control these kids? Why should they knuckle down when there are few consequences for bad behaviour? It seems like the school are giving up on my son and to be honest, I would too if he wasn't my son and I didn't care about him.
I think if they'd never made physical punishment illegal, my son and other kids wouldn't be this way. What do others think? If you think caning is wrong then what other alternatives are there for disciplining kids at school?
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