When my eldest son started shcool i always told him that is anyone hit him to never hit back and just tell the teacher what had happened. As soon as he started school he started to get the odd kick from other children, then the odd push and to be honest i just got fed up with him coming back from school saying someone had pushed him over, he would just stand there and look at the child who had hit him with a look of confusion, he just couldnt understand why other children acted in such a violent way. I got so fed up with him being so upset with other childrens behaviour that i told him if someone pushed him to ask them not to do it again because it wasnt nice and if they did it again then to hit them back. This is completly against my beliefs but i just dont want him to feel vulnerable anymore. He isnt being bullied, its just the odd push, kick, punch from children that cant control there anger, and since he has been hitting back children have learnt to back of. Has anyone else been in this positon, am i wrong in letting him hit back when i am a totally against violence?
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