Since there's no men's forum, I'll create this in Health - anyone is welcome to reply.
Actually I don't like the title of this thread, but since the current thread on the subject says "A Women's Thread" in the title I guess there's no choice. According to past discussions it's been decided that men can post in the women's forum, but as it explicitly says also in the title I don't feel welcome to post in it.
Personally I've never developed my own Candida, but it's totally possible for men to do so. For some reason though it's never talked about and I don't know why. Infact, it's not just not talked about, it's also a taboo (in the UK at least) for men to admit being passed it sexually by women - to the point of it not being taught in sex ed at school (at least not when i did it).
Women suffering from thrush is mainstream and big business - there's flashy ads on TV and it's an above board topic of conversation. Yet for a man to have thrush is just not mentioned. When I first caught thrush from my ex, despite being aged 22 and certainly not having led a sheltered life I knew nothing about it - I assumed at first that she'd given me an STD. Having read up on it I now know for a fact it's not uncommon and women don't have to show signs of it to pass it on.
The sad fact is that when I went to the pharmacy to get a cream for it and ask advice they claimed they'd never heard of a man buying any. How embarassed at that point was I?! Men can then give thrush back to women if they don't treat it, and thanks to the lack of education on the subject I'm sure there's a lot of men carrying it out there.
Thus I decided to create a men's topic on the subject, where people can share their experiences if they want. I certainly think it's useful and worthwhile raising awareness of thrush in men as opposed to something limited only to females. Ideally it'd be merged with the women's thread and be renamed people's instead, but if people want to talk seperately then so be it.
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